"I still think it’s important for people to have a sharp, ongoing critique of marriage in patriarchal society — because once you marry within a society that remains patriarchal, no matter how alternative you want to be within your unit, there is still a culture outside you that will impose many, many values on you whether you want them to or not."

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bell hooks, On Marriage

that’s it exactly, that’s exactly it

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(Source: kdhume, via so-treu)