"femmes with a bottom identification can renegotiate the dynamics of passivity/activity so that their feminine position is one of receiving pleasure rather than of being receptive solely for someone else’s pleasure. what seems to be passivity is actually activity; [ze] allows [them] to control [hir] pleasure, but this control and the pleasure are exactly what the femme has demanded."

— laura harris & liz crocker (via machoslut)

(via garconniere)